Situational Cues
Moderate signal

Courtship Signals

Cues of attraction such as preening, prolonged gaze and increased mirroring.

Context
Channel
Moderate
Reliability
Advanced
Difficulty to Read
Example

Two people in conversation smooth their hair, lean closer and laugh more easily together. The small acts of self presentation and attentiveness gather into a clear mutual interest.

How to Read It

Read clusters of attentiveness, mirroring and self presentation as signs of mutual interest. It is the gathering of several such signs, not any one, that suggests genuine attraction.

A Word of Caution

Friendliness is easily mistaken for romantic interest, so read with humility and respect. Warmth and good manners can look like courtship to a hopeful eye, so never presume.